Ko te wā tuatahi ka whakamahia e koe he here, ko te mea nui rawa e miharo ai koe, ehara pea i te tākaro ake – engari ko te nui o te wheako e hāngai ana ki te pai, te kōrero, me te tere. Ki te pōhēhē koe me pēhea te whakamahi i ngā tākaro here kia pai ai, kaua e whakanauhea, me tīmata ki tēnei: ko te whakamarie te mea matua, ā, ka whai mai te māia.
Ka taea te ngahau, te piri, te whakapūmau, me te tino makona te here, engari he uaua te pai o te mahi ina tere te iwi ki te kuhu. Ko ngā wheako pai rawa ka puta mai i te kōwhiri i te whakaritenga tika, te whakatika i ngā tūmanako, me te pēnei i te mea ka akona ngātahi koutou, kaua e pēnei i te mea me tino pai i te wā tuatahi.
Me pēhea te whakamahi i ngā tākaro here me te kore e tino whakaaro nui
I te taumata māmā, e rua ngā wāhanga matua o te whakaritenga here: ko te here me te tūroro. Ko ētahi he momo kotahi anake, ko ētahi ka taea e koe te whakawhiti i ngā rahi me ngā āhua i runga i te ahua, i te taumata wheako rānei. Ki te hou koe ki tēnei, he tūroro ngāwari ake i roto i te rahi pōturi he māmā ake te whakahaere i te mea tino mārō, tino hiahia rānei.
He nui ake te hiranga o te pai o te here i tā te nuinga e whakaaro ai. Ki te neke haere, ka ngau, ka noho wewete rawa rānei, ka tūāhua kōtītī te wheako katoa. He here piri ka pai ake te whakahaere, ka māmā ake te hīanga. Me tino mau kia noho ai ki tōna wāhi, engari kaua e tino piri kia raruraru ai.
He pai anō te whakaaro he aha te momo tākaro e tino hiahia ana koe. Ko te kuhu wāhine, te tākaro nono, te hurihanga tūranga, te pēhi, te tākaro whakaoho ira tangata, me te whakaihiihi tahi ka taea te tono kia rerekē ngā āhua, ngā momo here, me ngā āhuatanga. Kāore he kōwhiringa pai rawa atu – kei runga i te tinana, te whakamarie, me te mea e whakaihiihi ana i a kōrua.
Me tīmata me te whakaritenga here tika
Ki te hoko koe i tō mea tuatahi, kia māmā. He here māmā mō te tīmata me ngā here taea te whakatika, me te tūroro angiangi ki te āta rahi ka hoatu he wāhi mō te ako. Ehara i te mea ko te rahi nui te mea pai ake, inarā ina kei te taunga tonu te kaimau ki te nekehanga, ā, kei te whakatika tonu te kaiwhiwhi ki te rongo.
He mea nui anō te rauemi. He kōwhiringa pai te kirikiri haumaru-tinana nā te mea he ngāwari, he kore-pore, he māmā ki te horoi. He pai ake te rongo i runga i te tinana i ngā rauemi tino iti, ā, ka taea e tēnā te tino rerekē ina whakaaro koe ki te whakamahi neke atu i te kotahi.
Ki te tairongo te kaiwhiwhi, ki te mataku rānei, he pito whakahekeheke paku ka māmā ake te kuhu. Ki te hiahia te kaimau i ngā urupare me te whakahaere pai ake, ka tukuna e ētahi tūroro e hototahi ana ki te here he pūtake mārō me te āhua e pai ake ai te rongo i te wā e hīanga ana. Mō ētahi tokorua, he āwhina taua hanganga. Mō ētahi atu, he māmā ake te rongo ngāwari me te ngāwari.
I mua i tō tīmatanga, kōrero mō ngā kaupapa matua
He māmā ake te tākaro here ina mōhio ngā tāngata e rua he aha tā rāua e hiahia ana, he aha hoki te mea e kore e whakaaetia. Kāore e tika kia pērā he hui mana ki te tēpu kihini, engari me mārama kia kaua e pōhēhē te tangata. Kōrero mō te wāhi ka haere te tākaro, he aha te tere e pai ana, he aha te mea matua te kuhu, he wāhanga noa rānei o te tākaro, me ngā mahi ki te mea kāore i te tika.
He mea nui rawa tēnei ki te tākaro nono. Me nui ake te whakaritenga o te tinana, nui atu te hinu whakahinuhinu, me nui ake te manawanui. Ki te pēnei tetahi tangata i te mea he whakamātautau tere, ka tere te huri mai i te whakaihiihi ki te kore e pai.
Ka taea hoki e te tirotiro tere te whakaiti i te ngākau hihiko o te kaimau. Ko te nuinga o ngā māharahara tuatahi ka puta mai i te mōhiohio mō te tere, te koki, te ahua wairangi rānei. Ko te tikanga, kāore te tangata kē e whakatau i tō mahi. E hiahia ana rātou ki te hononga, te harikoa, me te nui o te kōrero kia noho haumaru ai.
Kāore te whakahinuhinu i te kōwhiringa
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Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
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