Ko te rārangi pai o ngā taputapu BDSM ehara i te hoko i ngā taputapu tino kaha i te tuatahi. Ko te whiriwhiri i ngā wāhanga e māia ai koe, e hāneanea ai, e pākiki ai, ahakoa e tohatoha ana koe i tētahi wheako hou ki tētahi hoa, e hanga ana rānei i tētahi kohinga e hāngai ana ki ō hiahia ake. Ka hangaia e te taputapu tika te tūmanako, ka tautokohia ngā herenga mārama, ka kawea mai he whakangahau anō ki te rūma moenga.
He maha ngā tikanga o te BDSM ki ngā pakeke rerekē. Ki ētahi, ko te pēhanga ngāwari o ngā here ringa me te kāmata hiraka. Ki ētahi atu, ka uru ki te aukati nahanaha, te tākaro rongo, te whakawhiti mana rānei e hāngai ana ki te tūranga. Kāore he huarahi tika kotahi hei tūhura. Me tīmata ki ngā mea e pāingia ana e koe, kōrero mārama i mua i tō tīmatanga, ka kōwhiri i ngā taputapu e pai ana ki te tinana me te wā anō.
Rārangi o Ngā Taputapu BDSM Pai rawa atu: 12 Me Whakaaro
1. Ngā here ringa me ngā here waewae ka taea te whakatika
Ko ngā here te kōwhiringa tuatahi tūturu nō te mea he māmā noa, he whai kiko, he ngāwari ki te whakatika ki tō taumata whakamarie. Rapua ngā katinga ka taea te whakatika, te pūpū ngāwari, me ngā hoahoa haumaru engari ngāwari ki te tuku tere. He tino pōhiri ngā here i whārikihia mō ngā tīmata, engari ka taea e ngā momo ahua-kiri, kiri hangai rānei te kawe mai i tētahi ahua kiko tawhito ake.
Kaua e herea ngā here kia piri rawa kia mate ai te numbness, te tingling, te kiri mātao, te mamae rānei. Me whai tikanga te aukati, kaua rawa e mōrearea. Mō te wātū tuatahi, ngana ki te pupuri ringa ki runga ake i te upoko, ki te mau here rānei kia wewete ki tētahi anga moenga pakari, kaua e tīmata ki ngā tūranga uaua.
2. He kāmata
Ma te tango i te tirohanga ka kaha ake te kitea o ia pā. Ko te kāmata tētahi o ngā taputapu ngāwari rawa ki te whakauru nō te mea he iti noa te whakaritenga, ā, ka taea e te kaimau te noho wātea ā-tinana. Kōwhiria he momo ngāwari, mātotoru katoa e noho hāneanea ana ki ngā kanohi me te kore e pēhi rawa.
I mua i te whakamahi, kia mōhio te tangata e mau ana ki te mahere, ā, ka taea e ia te tango māmā. He mea nui ake te kōrero ā-waha ka kore e wātea ngā tohu ā-kanohi. Ko tētahi pātai māmā pēnei i te “Kei te hiahia koe kia nui ake, kia iti ake rānei?” ka pupuri i te wairua hono me te whakamarie.
3. He taura here ngāwari
Ka tukuna e te taura here he momo tākaro pōturi ake, kaha ake ki te mahi. Ka taea te whakamahi mō ngā here whakapaipai, te aukati ngāwari, te takai me te pupuri noa rānei, i runga i tō wheako. Ko te miro ngāwari, te taura here rānei e pai ana mō ngā tīmata he hāneanea ake i te taura taratara, kikokore, ka taea te kōwhaki i te kiri.
Me kaha ake te tiaki o te taura i ngā here. Kaua rawa e herea ki te kaki, karohia ngā wāhi e pāngia ai ngā uaua me te rere toto, ā, me pupuri ngā kutikuti haumaru ki te taha. Mena he hou koe ki ngā here, whakaharatau ka oti kōrua te kākahu me te kore e tere. Ko te whāinga ko te hononga, ehara i te tikanga tino pai.
4. He kara
Ka taea te mau i tētahi kara hei taputapu huatau, he tohu whakawhirinaki, he wāhanga rānei o te whakataetae tūranga. Kei te pai ētahi tangata ki tētahi kara whāwhāwā whero, kiri hangai rānei mō te ahua mārō, engari kei te pai ētahi atu ki tētahi hoahoa whānui ake me tētahi mowhiti D hei here i tētahi mata.
Kei runga i te hihiri e hiahia ana koe ki te hanga. He kara whakapaipai pea te mea e hiahia ana koe mō te wairua iti. Mena ka whakaaro koe ki te taapiri i tētahi mea ki te mowhiti D, kōwhiria tētahi kara i hangaia pai mō tērā kaupapa, ā, kaua rawa e toia kaha, kia pēhanga rānei ki te korokoro.
5. He mata, he here rānei
Kaupapahere whakahoki
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Te kaipuke
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