He mea whakaihiihi te hoko taonga tākaro tuatahi, engari ka titiro atu koe ki te mata e kī ana i ngā kōwhiringa e kī ana katoa he tino pai. Mēnā kei te rapu koe i te wiriwiri pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata, ehara i te mea ko te whiriwhiri i te tauira tino whakaihiihi te whāinga tuturu. Engari, ko te whiriwhiri i tētahi mea e māmā ana te whakatata atu, e hāneanea ana, e māmā ana hoki te pārekareka mai i te whakamahinga tuatahi.
Ko te tikanga o tēnā ko te pupuri i ngā mea kia māmā. He pai ake te wheako o te hunga tīmata ki te wiriwiri e māmā ana te pupuri, kāore i te kaha rawa i te tautuhinga iti rawa, ā, he mea hanga nō ngā rawa haumaru-tinana e māmā ana te horoi. Ko te nui ake, te pakū ake, te nui ake rānei o ngā āhuatanga kāore i te tohu aunoa he pai ake, inarā kaore anō koe kia mātau he aha te momo rongo e tino pai ana ki a koe.
He aha ngā mea ka waiho hei wiriwiri pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata?
Ko te taonga tākaro tīmata pai rawa atu ko te mea e whakakore ana i te pēhanga. Kāore koe e hiahia ki tētahi pukapuka ā-ringa, he rārangi utunga pērā i tētahi rorohiko, kia tekau rānei ngā tauira wiriwiri e kore rawa koe e whakamahi. He māmā te mōhio o tētahi wiriwiri tuatahi pai i te tirohanga tuatahi, me ngā pātene e whai tikanga ana, me tētahi āhua kāore i te whakatūpato.
He mea nui te ngāwari atu i te mea e tūmanakohia ana e te nuinga o ngā kaihoko tuatahi. Ko te taonga tākaro he whakaotinga silicone māeneene ka tino ngāwari ake, ka hāneanea ake ki te tinana i te kirihou mārō ake. Heoi anō, he pai ake ki ētahi tangata te pēhanga pūmau ake, inarā mō te whakaohooho o waho, nō reira he iti noa te pai o te tangata takitahi. Mēnā e mōhio ana koe e pai ana koe ki te pa tika, tēnā pea ka pai ki a koe tētahi wiriwiri o waho pūmau ake. Mēnā he tairongo koe, he kore māia rānei, ko te silicone te wāhi tīmatanga haumaru ake.
Ko te rahi tētahi atu wāhi e maha ana ngā wā he mātau ake te mea iti. He iti ake te whakatūpato, he māmā ake hoki te whakahaere i tētahi wiriwiri paku. Mō te whakamahi ā-roto, he maha ngā wā he pai ake ngā āhua kikokore mō te hunga tīmata i ngā mea mātotoru, he nui rānei te kakano. Mō te whakamahi ā-waho, he maha ngā wā ka ranea tētahi poi, he taonga tākaro āhua kirikiri rānei e rite ana ki te kapu ringa ki te mātau he aha te mea e whakahoki mai ana tō tinana.
Tīmatahia ki te rongo, kaua ki te pānuitanga
He maha ngā kaihoko tuatahi ka pohehe i ngā kāwai. Ko ngā wiriwiri rapeti, ngā taonga tākaro momi, ngā whio, ngā hoahoa G-wāhi, ngā kōwhiringa whakahaere-mamao - kāore he he o tētahi o rātou, engari ko te mea tino pai mō te hunga tīmata e pā ana ki te rongo, kaua ki te ahua.
Mēnā kei te tino hiahia koe ki te pārekareka clitoral, he maha ngā wā ko te wiriwiri o waho iti te wāhi tīmatanga māmā rawa atu. He māmā, he ngāwari te whakamahi, he iti hoki te pēhanga. Ka taea e koe te whakamahi takitahi, me tētahi hoa, i runga i ngā kākahu o roto, i raro i te kaukau mēnā he parewai, i te wā rānei o te moe tūtuki mēnā e pai ana tēnā. Ka hoatu ki a koe te wāhi ki te whakamātau me te kore e pōuri kua whakapau kaha koe ki tētahi momo tākaro motuhake.
Mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te whakaohooho ā-roto, whiriwhiria tētahi mea kikokore me te māmā. He pai pea tētahi taonga tākaro whakauru piko, engari kaua e tino nui, kia mārō rānei mō te hoko tuatahi. He pai tonu ki ētahi o ngā tīmata te wiriwiri ā-roto. Ka mōhio ētahi atu he pai ake ki a rātou te whakaohooho o waho. He mea noa tēnā, ā, nō reira me āwhina tētahi taonga tākaro tuatahi i a koe ki te ako, kaua ki te ngana ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa i te wā kotahi.
Ngā momo wiriwiri māmā rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata
Ngā wiriwiri poi
Mēnā e hiahia ana koe ki te whakautu māmā rawa atu ki te wiriwiri pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata, he maha ngā wā he wiriwiri poi. He iti ngā wiriwiri poi, he huna, he māmā te rokiroki, he iti ake hoki te utu i ngā momo nui ake. He mea hoahoa rātou mō te whakaohooho o waho, inarā huri noa i te clitoris, ā, he pai rātou mō ngā tangata e hiahia ana ki tētahi mea māmā.
Ko te ngoikoretanga o tēnā ko te mea he paku haruru rawa ngā wiriwiri poi tino iti te utu, kaua ki te hōhonu me te haruru. Kāore tēnā i te tohu he kino rātou, engari he rerekē te kounga o te rongo. Mō tētahi taonga tākaro tuatahi, he mea tika kia whiriwhiria tētahi tauira e aro ana ki te hāneanea me te kaha pono, kaua ki te utu iti rawa noa.
Ngā wiriwiri whio iti
Ko ngā whio iti tētahi atu kōwhiringa pai mō te hunga tīmata. He nui ake te māhunga o rātou i te poi, nō reira he iti ake te whāiti o te rongo, he iti ake hoki te rorirori. Ka whai hua tēnā mēnā he tino kaha rawa te whakaohooho clitoral tika.
He māmā hoki te whakamahi i ō rātou wāhi rerekē o te tinana, nō reira he whai hua rātou mō ngā takirua me te tākaro takitahi. Ko te mea nui hei mātai ko te kaha. He kaha rawa ētahi taonga tākaro momo whio i te wā poto, nō reira rapua tētahi he tautuhinga iti tino ngawari tōna.
Kaupapahere whakahoki
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Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
Te kaipuke
Ka whakapau kaha mātou ki te tuku wawe i tō ota. Kia tukuna rā anō tō ota, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi īmēra me ētahi atu mōhiohio. He rerekē ngā wā tuku i runga anō i tō wāhi noho.
Hangahanga
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