I te wā tuatahi ka hoko koe i ngā here taura herehere mō te hunga tīmata, ka nui ake te kaha o ngā mea katoa i tōna āhua tūturu. Ngā here kiri, ngā huinga taura, ngā pūnaha raro-moenga, ngā topenga, ngā peke, ngā here tuku-tere – he māmā noa te whakaaro me mōhio koe ki te mahi i mua i tō tīmatanga. Kāore koe e hiahia. Ko te wāhi pai rawa atu ki te tīmata ko te whakamarie, te kōrero mārama me ngā taputapu e māmā ana te whakamahi.
Mō te nuinga o ngā tāngata, ko te herehere tīmata he iti ake te pēhi i ngā rohe, engari he nui ake te tāpiri i te tūmanako, te whakawhirinaki me te mana whakahaere takaro. Ka taea e te here ringaringa ngāwari te whakahihiri me te kore e nui rawa. Ko te here e tere piri ana, ā, e tere wetewete ana, he pai ake te kōwhiringa tuatahi i tētahi mea uaua. Mena he pākiki koe engari he tupato, he tohu pai tēnā.
He aha ngā take e pai ai te herehere mō te hunga tīmata?
Ko ngā herehere e pai ana mō te hunga tīmata he ngāwari, he whakatika, ā, he māmā te tango. He mea nui tēnā nā te mea ko ō wheako tuatahi he ako i ngā mea e pai ana ki tō tinana, me ngā mea e pai ana ki te hinengaro. Mena he uaua tētahi mea, he piri rawa, he uaua rānei ki te wetewete, ka tere koe te ngaro i taua wā.
Ko ngā here kōpaki te wāhi tīmata māmā rawa. He ngāwari, he iti ake te whakawehi i te taura, ā, ka horahia te pēhanga ki ngā ringaringa, ngā waewae rānei. He ngāwari rawa ngā kāhua Velcro nā te mea ka tere te whakatika, ā, kāore e hiahiatia te whakaharatau nui. Ka taea hoki e ngā here peke te mahi pai mena he kōpaki, ā, kāore i te tino mārō.
Ko ngā pūnaha here raro-moenga tētahi atu wāhi kuhunga rongonui. Ka taea e koe te hanga i te kare ā-roto o te herehere me te kore e hiahia ki te whakauru i tētahi mea mau tonu, ki te ako rānei i ngā puku. Mō ngā takirua e hiahia ana ki te kōwhiringa mā, iti-raru, he pai te taurite i waenga i te wawata me te mahi.
Ka taea e te taura te wāhanga o te takaro tīmata, engari ehara i te mea ko te hoko tuatahi māmā rawa. He huatau te ahua, ā, he tino whakawai, engari he nui ake te tikanga me te nui ake o te kawenga. Mena e rata ana koe ki te taura, he pai ake te whakaaro he pūkenga tēnā ka akohia āta, kaua ko tō huarahi tere ki te takaro herehere.
Ko ngā here herehere pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata hei tīmata
Mena kei te whakatau koe ki hea ka tīmata, whakaarohia te māmā, kaua ko te kaha. Ko ngā here herehere pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata ko te nuinga o te wā ko ngā here ringaringa, ngā here waewae, ngā huinga here e honoa ana e te here poto, ngā pūnaha raro-moenga rānei me ngā wāhi tuku-tere. Ka hoatu e ēnei hua he hanganga ki a koe me te kore e tono kia whakahaere koe i te whakaritenga uaua.
He nui noa ngā here ringaringa. Mō ētahi tāngata, mā te here noa i ō rātou ringa ka puta te tūmanako katoa e hiahia ana rātou. Ka taea e ngā here waewae te whai i te mahi e whai ake nei, inarā mena ka mōhio kē ngā hoa mahi e pai ana rāua ki te pūhohe. Ka pai pea te ahua o te huinga katoa, engari kāore i te pūoko te pai ake o te wheako nā te nui ake o ngā wāhanga.
Ka tino rerekē hoki te ahua o te rauemi. Ka taea e te kiri horihori te tuku i te ahua matarohia ake me te utu iti tonu. Ko te Neoprene me te kākahu kōpaki he ngāwari ake te ahua, ā, he pai ake hoki mō te whakamahi roa. Ka pai pea te ahua o ngā taputapu whakarewa, ahakoa kāore i te pai rawa ngā taputapu taumaha mō te whakamātautau tuatahi mena ko te whakamarie tō kaupapa matua.
He pātai anō hoki mō te ahua. E hiahia ana ētahi kaihoko ki ngā herehere e tino kitea ana he kinky, engari ko ētahi e pai ake ana ki tētahi mea ngāwari ake, he iti ake te whakatuma. Kāore tētahi kōwhiringa e tika ake. Mena ka awhina tētahi hua i a koe kia wātea kia whakamahia ai, ko tēnā te kōwhiringa pai ake mō te hunga tīmata.
He mea nui ake te whakamarie me te haumaru i te ahua
He maha ngā kaihoko tuatahi ka raruraru i ngā ataahua. Kāore he he ki te hiahia ki tētahi mea whakawai, engari me matua noho te whakamarie. Me piri ngā herehere, kaua e piri rawa. Me kaha koe ki te whakauru mai i ō maihao i waenganui i te herehere me te kiri, ā, kaua rawa e rongo te aukati i te rere toto.
Ko te he nui rawa atu a te hunga tīmata ko te whakaaro he pai ake te piri. Kāore. Ko te pēhanga ki ngā uaua, ngā hononga, te rere toto rānei ka huri i tētahi whakaaro ngahau hei mea kino rawa atu. He tino tairongo ngā ringaringa, koinei te take he pai ake te kōwhiringa o ngā here ngāwari, whānui i te here angiangi, i ngā mea whare rānei i hangaia hei here.
He mea nui tēnā tohu whakamutunga. Ka ahua pai pea te whakamahi i ngā taura, ngā whitiki, ngā kākahu rānei kei a koe i te kāinga, engari he pai ake ngā herehere i hangaia mō te kaupapa, nā te mea he mea hanga mō tēnā mahi. He ngāwari ake te whakatika, he māmā ake te tuku, ā, he matapae ake hoki te whakamahi.
He ture māmā e awhina ana i konei: mena kāore e taea te tango tere me te marie, kāore pea i te pai mō te hunga tīmata. Ka ngaro ngā kī. Ka piri ngā puku uaua i raro i te pēhanga. I roto i aua wheako tuatahi, he wāhanga te māmā o te tango i te ahua haumaru kia pai ai koe.
Mā te kōrero tuatahi ka māmā ake ngā mea katoa
Ka tīmata te takaro herehere pai i mua i te herehere o tētahi mea. Ka taea e te kōrero tere, pono te rerekētanga i waenga i te pōuri me te whakahihiri. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tuhinga ōkawa, engari e hiahia ana koe ki te kapi i ngā mea e pākiki ana ia tangata, ngā mea kāore e whakaaetia, me te āhua o tō mutu, o tō whakamutu rānei mena ka he tētahi mea.
Mō te hunga tīmata, he pai te pupuri i ngā mea kia māmā. Whakatauhia ko ēhea wāhanga tinana ka pai ki te herehere, he aha te ahua o te pa e pai ana, mehemea ko te whāinga he whakapatapata, he mahi tūroro, he whakamātautau noa rānei i te kare-ā-roto. Ka kitea pea e koe he pai ki tētahi hoa te tūmanako, engari ko tētahi e hiahia ana ki te taha kite. He pai tēnā ki te mōhio i mua.
He awhina te kupu haumaru, engari he pēnei anō te tirotiro i te reo māmā. Mā te pātai, "Pēhea te ahua?" rānei "E hiahia ana koe kia nui ake, kia iti ake rānei te pēhanga?" ka mau tonu ngā mea ki te whenua. Kāore e hiahia ana te herehere kia noho puku, kia taumaha hoki kia ahua whakawai. Mō te nuinga o ngā takirua, ko te whakapūmau te wāhanga o ngā mea e pai ai.
Me pēhea te kōwhiri i te huinga tika mō tō whakamātautau tuatahi
Ka ngāwari ake te hokohoko ipurangi nā te mea ka taea e koe te tango i tō wā, me te whakataurite i ngā kāhua i roto i te tūmataiti. Engari, kāore ngā whakaahua hua e whakaatu i ngā kōrero e tino nui ana i ngā wā katoa. I mua i te hoko, tirohia mehemea ka taea te whakatika i ngā herehere, mehemea e whakamahi ana rātou i te Velcro, i ngā peke rānei, mehemea kei roto he kōpaki.
Whakaarohia hoki tō whakaritenga o te ao tūturu. Mena e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi mea tere ki te kawe mai i te ahiahi wiki, ka pai pea he takirua here ki a koe i te kete raro-moenga katoa. Mena e pai ana ki a koe te whakaaro o te here ringa-waewae me te kore e nui te ako, ka pai pea te pūnaha tīmata. Mena he mea nui te rokiroki, he ngāwari ake ngā wāhanga iti ki te whakatakoto huna.
Ka taea e te utu te whakatakoto i tō kōwhiringa, engari ehara i te mea ko te iti ake te pai ake mena he taratara te rauemi, he ngāwari rānei te ahua o ngā here. I tētahi taha, kāore koe e hiahia ki te huinga tino utu nui kia pai ai te wheako. Ko te wāhi pai mō te hunga tīmata ko te nuinga o te wā he mea utu iti, he ngāwari, he whakatika, ā, he mea hanga mā te whakamarie.
Mena kei te hokohoko koe hei takirua, kōwhirihia te hua tahi mena ka taea. Mā tēnā ka kore e hoko tētahi tangata i tētahi mea e ahua whakahihiri ana engari e whakawehi ana i tētahi atu. Ko te whakamarie tahi ka hua mai i ngā wheako tuatahi pai ake i te kaha ohorere.
Me pēhea te ahua o tō wāhanga tuatahi
Kia poto. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohutohu pai rawa atu mō te hunga tīmata, ā, he maha ngā wā ka warewaretia. Kāore e hiahia ana tō wā tuatahi ki te whakamahi herehere kia waiho hei whakaaturanga katoa me te whakamahere matatini. Ka taea noa iho te here i ngā here ringaringa, te kite i te ahua o te kare-ā-roto, me te hanga mai i reira.
Tīmata i roto i te tūnga whakamarie kāore e pēhi i ngā pakihiwi, ngā hope, ngā turi rānei. Ka ahua pai pea ngā ringa i runga ake i te upoko i runga i te ariā, engari ka tere te ahua pōuri i runga i te ngāwari me te tū. Ko te here i mua o te tinana he pai ake mō te hunga tīmata i ngā ringa i kumea ki muri i te tuara.
Noho tata, kia tuwhera tonu te kōrero, ā, kaua e waiho i tētahi hoa herehere anake. Tirohia te kiri i ētahi wā mō te whiu, te ngongo, te rerekētanga tae rānei. Mena ka he tētahi mea, mutu, ā, whakatikahia. Ko te wheako tuatahi pai ka puta mai i te tere, kaua i te ngana ki te tohu i ngā pouaka wawata katoa i te wā kotahi.
I muri mai, kōrero mō ngā mea i pai. Akene he pai ngā here engari kāore ngā here waewae i pai. Akene he wera ake te tūmanako i te mea i whakaarohia, akene i mōhio kōrua he pai ake ki a kōrua te here iti me te whakapatapata nui. Ko tērā momo urupare te huarahi e hanga ai e koe te māia.
Ahea te piki ake i ngā herehere tīmata
Ina mōhio koe e pai ana ki te takaro herehere, ka taea e koe te tīmata ki te tūhura i te tinihanga. Ka taea tēnā te whakamātau i tētahi huinga here whānui ake, te tāpiri i tētahi pae hora, te ako i te haumaru taura taketake, te kōwhiri rānei i ngā herehere me te kāhua tirohanga kaha ake. Ko te mea nui ko te tāpiri i tētahi taurangi i te wā kotahi.
Kāore he tere ki te neke ki ngā taputapu matatau. Ko ētahi tāngata e noho harikoa ana i roto i te kāwai tīmata nā te mea ko ngā here ngāwari me te herehere māmā kua hoatu kē ki a rātou ngā mea e hiahia ana rātou. Ko ētahi ka piki haere te maia. He mea noa ngā huarahi e rua.
Mena e hiahia ana koe kia whakahihiri tō hoko tuatahi me te kore e mataku, pupuri tō arotahi ki te whakamarie, te tuku māmā me ngā hua e tika ana mō tō taumata wheako tūturu. Ka whai te koa i te māia, ā, ka tīmata te māia ki ngā taputapu e taea ai e koe te wātea i taua wā. Ka nui pea te huinga here māmā hei huri i te pākiki hei mea e tino tūmanako ana koe a muri ake nei.
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