Mēnā ka tere rawa te tutuki o ō wā tūmataiti, mā ngā tikanga whāwhā me ngā whāwhāwhāwhāwhā ka rerekē te wheako katoa. Ka tāpiri kē te whāwhā pai i te kakano, te pēhanga, me te momo, engari ki te honoa e koe ki te whakapau wā, ka nui ake tō mana whakahaere, ka nui ake tō rongo, ka roa ake tō hanga mai i te mutunga tere. Ka pai ake tērā i tēnā wā, ā, ka āwhina hoki i a koe ki te ako he aha ngā mea e pai ana ki tō tinana.
He māmā noa te whāwhā – kia tata rawa koe ki te orgasm, kātahi ka whakangāwari i mua i te wāhi kore hokinga mai. Ki te whāwhā, ka māmā ake te whakatikatika i taua mahi nā te mea ka taea e koe te whakatikatika i te hopu, te hōhonutanga, te tere, me te pēhanga me te rite tonu atu i te whakamahi ringa anake. Mō ētahi tāngata, ko te tikanga he orgasm kaha ake. Mō ētahi atu, ko te tikanga he manawanui ake, he wā pai ake rānei. I te nuinga o te wā, he paku rua.
He aha te rerekētanga o ngā tikanga whāwhā me ngā whāwhā
Ka hurihia e te whāwhā ngā urupare ka riro i a koe. Ka taea e ngā kakano o roto te hanga i te whakaoho kaha ake me te iti ake o te whakapau kaha, ā, ka taea e te ringa te pupuri i te hinu me te mahana i roto i te huarahi e whai mana ake ai te rongo. Ko tērā tonu te take he tino whai hua te whāwhā ki te kotahi – ā, he māmā ake te hīanga ki te tere koe.
He māmā noa te utu. Ko te nui ake o te rongo ka nui ake te whai wāhi ki a koe ki te hanga ātaahua, engari ko te tikanga me aro nui koe ki tō taumata whakaara. Ki te tere rawa koe i te wā whakangā ki te mutunga, tīmata kia puhoi ake i tō whakaaro ka hiahia koe. Ko te whāinga ehara i te mea kia whakapataritari i a koe ki te pōuri. Ko te noho ki taua rohe whakaara teitei mo te roa e ranea ana kia tupu ai te ngahau.
Tīmatahia me te tatūnga whāwhā tika
Kāore e pai ngā whāwhā katoa mō te whāwhā i te huarahi kotahi. Ko te ringa tino piri me te kakano kaha ka tino pai, engari ka tere ake te pana i a koe ki tua atu i tō hiahia. Ki te hou koe ki te whāwhā, he ringa ngāwari ake, he ringa rānei he iti ake te taipitopito o roto ka nui ake te wāhi ki a koe ki te whakamātau.
He mea nui hoki te hinu. Ko te nui ake o te hinu ka hanga i te nekeneke māeneene, tere ake, he mea pai ki te hiahia koe ki ngā whiu roa, mana whakahaere. Ka taea e te rongo paku piri ake te whakanui i te kume me te kaha, he mea e pai ana ki ētahi tāngata, engari ka poto ake te wā. Kāore he tautuhinga pai rawa atu i konei. Kei runga i tō hiahia kia puhoi te mura, he mea kaha ake rānei me ngā okiokinga poto.
Ka taea hoki e te pāmahana te huri i te wheako. Ko te whāwhā mahana ka pai ake te rongo, ka ngongo hoki, engari ka koi ake te rongo o te ringa mātao. Ki te whai koe ki te hanga manawanui me te mōhiotanga tinana, ka taea e ēnei rerekētanga iti te āwhina i a koe ki te mōhio he aha ngā mea e tere ake ai tō whakaara, me ngā mea e taea ai e koe te whakahaere.
Ko ngā tikanga whāwhā tino whai hua me ngā whāwhā
Ko te huarahi pai rawa atu ko te mea ka taea e koe te whakahoki anō me te kore e matapae. He māmā ake te whāwhā ki te whakamahi koe i ngā tauira māmā me te ako i ō ake tohu whakatūpato.
Te tikanga tū-tīmata
Koinei te wāhi mātāmua ki te tīmata. Whāwhā kia tata koe ki te orgasm, kātahi ka whakamutu i ngā nekehanga katoa ka tuku i te rongo kia tau. Taria kia heke te akiaki, kātahi ka tīmata anō.
Ki te whāwhā, ko te mea nui ko te whakamutu wawe atu i tō whakamahi ringa. Nā te mea ka mau tonu te whakaoho a te ringa ahakoa ka puhoi te nekehanga, ki te waiho kia roa rawa ka kore he hua o te okiokinga. Ki te kite koe i te uaua o te puku, te tere o te manawa, te rongo ohorere rānei o te kore e taea te karo, kua tata koe. Hoki atu i mua i tērā wāhi, ā, ka nui ake tō mana whakahaere.
Te tikanga whiu-puhoi
Engari ki te whakamutu rawa, whakahekehia te tere me te whakapoto i te roa o te whiu ka piki te whakaara. Ka mau tonu te ngahau me te kore e eke ki te mutunga. He pai tēnei mō te hunga e pōuri ana ki te whakamutu rawa, ki te tere rawa rānei te ngaro o te whakaara i ngā okiokinga.
Whakamātauria te huri mai i ngā whiu katoa, ā-manawataki ki ngā nekehanga papaku huri noa i te wāhi tino tairongo, ki te rerekē rānei ki te kaha rawa te rongo o te whakaoho tika. Ko te take kia whakahekehia te kaha me te kore e patu i te torohaki. He maha ngā tāngata e kite ana he māori ake tēnei tikanga nā te mea he iti ake te ahua o te haukoti, he rite ake ki te whakatere arataki.
Te nekehanga pēhanga
Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi māmā ki te whāwhā me te whāwhā ko te huri i te pēhanga hopu, kaua ko te tere anake. Ko te hopu kaha ake ka whakanui i te mirimiri me te whakaoho, ā, ka taea e te hopu mārama ake te whakaheke i te kaha me te kore e mutu rawa.
He tino whai hua tēnei ki ngā ringaringa he uhi o waho ngāwari, he pakitara ngāwari rānei. Ka tata koe, whakangāwari i tō ringa, whakahekehia te pēhi, ka waiho kia iti ake te mahi a te kakano. Kātahi, ka hiahia koe ki te hanga anō, whakanuia āta te pēhanga. He tikanga paku noa, engari koinei tonu te take he whai hua.
Te mana whakahaere hōhonutanga
Ka tino kaha ngā whiu hōhonu katoa, ina koa i roto i te ringa he kakano matotoru. Ki te tere rawa koe ki te orgasm, ka taea e te mana whakahaere i te hōhonutanga o tō whiu te āwhina i a koe kia roa ake te noho ki te kēmu.
Ka piki te whakaara, whakapotoa te whiu ka arotahi ki ngā wāhi e whakaoho ana engari kāore i te kaha rawa. Ki te mea ko ngā whiu papaku tō kaiwhakaara, hurihia ka whakamahi i ngā nekehanga puhoi, hōhonu ake. Ko te whāwhā he ako he aha te momo nekehanga e tere ake ai tō piki, kātahi ka whiriwhiri i tētahi atu ina hiahiatia.
He nui ake te wā i te tatau rauna
Ko ētahi tohutohu whāwhā ka pēnā te ahua me patu koe i te maha o ngā rauna i mua i te orgasm. Kāore koe. Mō tētahi tāngata, e rua ngā huringa o te hanga me te okiokinga ka tino pai. Mō tētahi atu, e rima, e ono rānei ngā rauna ka puta te hua pai rawa atu. Ko te whai i te tau ka pēnā te ahua o te wā he mahi kāinga.
Ko te huarahi pai ake ko te mahi me te wā me te rongo. Hoatu he whakaaetanga ki a koe kia noho ki roto i te wā mo te rua tekau meneti neke atu rānei, ka aro ki te pehea o tō tinana. Ki te māmā rawa ia whāwhā, whakanuia te kaha. Ki te kore koe e kaha ki te whakahaere, whakahekehia ngā mea i mua. Ko te whāwhā pai ehara i te mea mō te māramatanga mōna ake, engari mō te hanga i tētahi manawataki e harikoa ana, e mau tonu ana, e whakangāwari ana hoki.
Ehara te manawa i te tohutohu koretake
He mea māmā noa te ahua, engari ka huri te manawa i te tere o te piki o te whakaara. Ka uaua te tangata ka pupuri i tōna manawa, ka tere te tae mai o te orgasm. Ka āwhina te manawa puhoi ki te aukati i tō tinana kia tere ki te mutunga.
Ka whāwhā koe, whakamātauria te whakataurite i te nekehanga ki te tauira manawa hū me te manawa puta tonu. Ka okioki koe, kia manawa hōhonu tonu kaua e whakatotoka. Ka āwhina tēnei ki te whakaheke i te whakaara me te kore e ngaro katoa i te wairua. Ki te kitea e koe kua mutu ohorere koe i te wā okiokinga, he pai te tupono he wāhanga te uaua.
Ngā hapa noa e uaua ai te whāwhā
Ko te hapa nui rawa atu ko te tīmata i te kaha rawa. Ki te mea kua pēnā te ahua o tō meneti tuatahi he waru i roto i te tekau, he iti rawa te wāhi i waiho e koe ki a koe ki te hanga. Tīmata i te taumata iti iho i tō whakaaro ka hiahia koe, ka waiho mā te tūmanako e mahi ētahi o ngā mahi.
Ko tētahi atu take noa ko te whakamahi i te rahinga hinu he. Ko te iti rawa ka hanga i te mirimiri nui e pana ana i te rongo ki te taumaha. Ko te nui rawa ka kore e whai mana te whāwhā, ka tere ake tō hiahia ki te tere. Whakatikatika i a koe e haere ana. Kāore he he ki te tāpiri i te nui ake i te waenganui ki te tīmata te ringa ki te kume.
Ka taea hoki e te kōkiri te pōraruraru i te mana whakahaere. Ki te tirotiro koe i tō waea, ki te tere koe nā te mea kāore he wāhi tūmataiti, ki te haurua rānei tō hinengaro ki tētahi atu wāhi, he uaua ake te kite i te pikinga tika. Ahakoa he poto te wā ka pai ake te rongo ki te mōhio koe kāore koe e haukotia.
Ahea te huri tikanga
Ki te pōuri koe i te tū-tīmata, whakamātauria te whiu-puhoi. Ki te kore e ranea te whiu-puhoi ki te whakaheke i te whakaara, tāpiri he okiokinga katoa. Ki te kore e nui te mahi a ngā huringa pēhanga, whakamātauria te hōhonutanga whiu, he kakano ringa rerekē rānei. Kāore he tohu mō te piri ki tētahi tikanga kāore e pai ki tō tinana.
Pērā hoki mō te whāwhā ake. He pai ake ētahi ringaringa mō ngā wā kaha, tere. He pai ake ētahi atu mō te tākaro roa ake me te mana whakahaere nui ake. Ki te uaua tonu te whāwhā, ehara pea i te mea he he tō tikanga. He pēnā pea he kaha rawa te taonga mō te momo wā e hiahia ana koe.
Kia pai ake te whāwhā, kaua e kaha rawa
Ko ngā tikanga whāwhā pai rawa atu me ngā whāwhā ko ngā mea e pai ake ai tō hononga ki tō ngahau, kaua e mōhio whaiaro ake. Me pēnā te ahua he takaro me te pai, kaua e pēnā te ahua kei te tiaki koe i ia rongo. He wāhanga te whakamātautau iti o te ngahau.
Ka āwhina pea te whakatere i te wā he whakaharatau, kaua he whakaaturanga. I ētahi rā ka pai ake tō mana whakahaere i ētahi atu. Ka pā te māharahara, te tairongo, te moe, me te wairua ki te tere o tō orgasm. Ehara i te mea kei te mahi koe i te he. Ko te tikanga noa ehara tō tinana i te mihini.
Ki te tohatoha koe i tō ngahau me tō hoa, ka taea hoki e te whāwhā i te wā tākaro takitahi te āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ake i tō wā me ō kaiwhakaara. Ka mau tonu taua mōhiotanga ki te taatua tahi, ina koa ka nui ake tō maia ki ngā mea e puhoi ai koe me ngā mea e pana ai koe ki mua.
Ka taea e te whāwhā kounga te māmā ake te whāwhā ki te tūhura nā te mea ka homai e ia he rongo ka taea te whakahoki anō i roto i te taiao tūmataiti, iti te pēhanga. Ko tēnā te take i hoki mai ai te tini o ngā tāngata ki a ia. Ka whiwhi koe i te wāhi ki te whakamātau, ki te ako i ō tauira, me te kimi i ngā mea e tino pai ana me te kore e tere i te mahi.
Kāore e tika kia nui ake, kia kaha ake, kia tere ake rānei te ngahau. I ētahi wā he pai ake ka tukua e koe kia piki.
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