He mea noa noa te here hiraka. He mea whakahihiri te here kanohi. Engari ko te rerekētanga i waenga i te wheako kīnaki ngahau me tētahi mea e kore e pai ki te katoa, ehara i te mea ko te tūemi tonu – engari ko te kōrero, te manaaki me te aro nui ki taua mea. Ko tēnei aratohu ki ngā ture haumaru BDSM mō ngā pakeke e hiahia ana ki te tūhura mā te māia, ahakoa kei te whakamātau koe i tētahi poroporo ngāwari mō te wā tuatahi, kua mōhio kē rānei koe he aha te momo takaro e hiahia ana koe.
Ka tīmata te haumaru BDSM i mua i te wā i tū ai tētahi mea
He maru whānui a BDSM e taea ai te whakauru i te here, te mana, te tuku, te takaro rongo, te takaro tūranga, te takaro pānga, me ētahi atu. Kāore he huarahi tika kotahi hei pārekareka ki a ia. Ko te mea nui, ko ngā tangata katoa e whai wāhi ana, he pakeke mōhio, he pūmau hoki, kua whakaae noa ki te wheako.
Ehara te whakaae i te pātai kotahi noa iho i uia i te tīmatanga. He kaha, he motuhake, he haere tonu. Mā te whakaae ki te herea, ehara i te mea kua whakaae koe ki te takaro pānga. Mā te kī ae ki tētahi wāhi ka kore e puta he whakaaetanga mō te wā e whai ake nei. Ka taea e te tangata te huri i tōna whakaaro i ngā wā katoa, ahakoa he aha te take, me te kore e tika kia whakamāramatia.
He kōrero tīmata whaihua e hipoki ana i ngā mea e hiahia ana kōrua ki te whakamātau, ngā mea e kore rawa e whakaaetia, me ngā mea ka taea te kī "āe" i tētahi atu rā. Kōrerotia hoki ngā take ā-tinana, tae atu ki ngā wharanga, ngā wāhi pōuri, ngā rongoā, ngā mate pāwera me ngā wheako o mua e pā ana ki te oranga. Ehara pea tēnei i te wāhi tino ataahua o te kink, engari mā ngā paenga mārama e whakatupu te whakawhirinaki kia noho te koa ki mua.
Whakaae ki tētahi kupu haumaru me ngā tohu
He kupu mārama te kupu haumaru e whakatū i te takaro, e whakamutu hoki i te wā tonu. Kōwhiria tētahi mea e kore e pōhēhē ki te takaro tūranga, pērā i te "whero", te "paināporo", me tētahi atu kupu mōhio e kore e kōrerotia i taua wā tonu. Me mōhio ngā tāngata katoa e whai wāhi ana ka whakautea tōna whakamahinga i te wā tonu, me te kore riri, tohetohe, tautohetohe rānei.
He maha ngā tāngata e whakamahi ana i te pūnaha rama waka. Ko te "Kākāriki" te tikanga he pai ngā mea, ā, ka taea te haere tonu. Ko te "Kōwhai" te tikanga kia pōturi, kia tirohia, kia whakatika rānei. Ko te "Whero" te tikanga kia mutu ināianei. He māmā, he māmā ki te mahara, ā, he pai hoki mō ngā tāngata tīmata.
Kāore e taea te whakamahi kupu i ngā wā katoa. Mēnā ka uaua te kōrero ā-waha nā te kōmaka, te waiata kaha, te tūnga rānei, whakaaehia tētahi tohu kore-waha i mua i te tīmatanga. Ka taea tēnei te whakataka i tētahi mea, te patupatu tonu, te tohu ringa rānei e māmā ai te mōhio o tō hoa. Whakamātauria te tohu i te tuatahi. Mēnā kāore e taea e tētahi te kōrero mārama, kaua rawa ia e waiho noa.
Whakamahia te aratohu ki ngā ture haumaru BDSM mō ō taputapu
Ko ngā taputapu pai e tautoko ana i te oranga me te mana whakahaere, engari kāore e whakakapi i te hinengaro noa. I mua i te whakamahi i ngā poroporo, taura, kara, pātaru, here kanohi, me ētahi atu taputapu BDSM, tirotirohia i roto i te rama pai. Rapua ngā tui tawhito, ngā tapa taratara, ngā here pakaru me ngā mea katoa ka taea te kotia, te kōpikopiko, te whati ohorere rānei.
Mō te here, kia tata tonu te kutikuti haumaru. He mea hoahoa kia tapahia ngā taonga here maha kia tere, me te kore he mata koi tata ki te kiri. Kia mōhio kei hea rātou i mua i te tīmatanga o te takaro, kaua i muri i te kore e pai o tētahi. Kaua e herea, e mau rānei tētahi mea ki te kaki, ā, kaua e waiho noa te tangata kua herea, ahakoa he wā poto noa.
He nui ake te hiranga o te whiu i te ahua o ngā here. Kaua ngā poroporo e pōrewarewa, e ngau, e makariri, e huri tae, e mamae rānei. Tirohia te rere o te toto i ngā wā katoa, ka wewete i te pēhanga i te tohu tuatahi o te hē. Tīmatahia ki ngā wātū poto me ngā here ngāwari-wewete i a koe e ako ana i te urupare o ō tinana.
Mēnā kei te whakauru koe i ngā taonga tākaro, kōwhiria ngā rauemi haumaru-tinana e hāngai ana ki te whakamahinga i whakaritea, ka whai hoki i ngā tohutohu tiaki. Horoia ngā taonga tākaro i mua i muri hoki i te whakamahinga me tētahi kai horoi taonga tākaro, hopi ngāwari rānei me te wai mahana ki te wāhi e whakaaehia ai e te rauemi. Whakamahia he kondom hōu ki runga i ngā taonga tākaro ina huri ana i waenganui i ngā hoa, ngā wāhi tinana rānei, ka huri i mua i te huri mai i te takaro nono ki te takaro tara. Mā tēnei e āwhina ki te whakaiti i te tūponotanga o te iririta me te mate hopuhopu.
Me māmā ake te tīmatanga i tō whakaaro ka hiahia koe
Ko tētahi hē noa a te tangata tīmata ko te pōhēhē he rārangi arotake te wawata. Kāore koe e tika ki te hanga anō i tētahi whakaaturanga whakahirahira kia whai wheako pai ai. He here kanohi, he whakatino pōturi, he torutoru tohutohu ā-waha, he poroporo ringaringa ngāwari rānei, ka nui pea i te wā e ako ana kōrua i ngā urupare a tētahi ki tētahi.
Whakanuia te kaha mā te pōturi. Tīmatahia ki te taumata pēhanga, rongo, pānga rānei e iti iho ana i tō whakaaro ka pai ki tō hoa, kātahi ka tirotirohia ka whakatika. Ka rerekē te urupare a te tangata i ngā rā rerekē i runga i te moe, te pōraruraru, te hūmōne, te hauora me te wairua. Ko te whakaaetanga ngākau nui inanahi ehara i te matapae mō tēnei pō.
Ka taea e te waipiro me ngā rongoā whakangāwari te whakapōrearea i te whakatau, te kōrero, me te pōhēhē mamae. Whakaorangia ngā mahi hōu, ngā here, me ngā mea katoa e hiahia ana kia kaha te tinana mō tētahi wā e mārama ana te hinengaro o te katoa. Mēnā he ruarua te tangata, he pōraruraru rānei, e kore e taea te hoatu whakaaetanga whai tikanga, tukua atu. Ka taea e tētahi whakaaturanga pai te tatari.
Ko ētahi mahi he nui ake, he iti ake hoki ngā tūraru e kore e taea te matapae i ētahi atu. Ko te here i te manawa, te rere o te toto rānei ka tino mōrearea rawa atu, ahakoa e whakapono ana tētahi kei te tūpato ia. Kāore he huarahi haumaru pono hei mahi i te here manawa hei mahi tīmata, nō reira he pai kia karohia. Kia arotahi tō tūhuratanga ki ngā mahi ka taea te aroturuki i te kōrero, te nekehanga, me te rere o te toto.
Tirotirohia me te kore e pakaru i te wairua
Kāore te tirotiro i te tika kia ōkawa, kia pōraruraru rānei. Ko te "Kei te pēhea koe?" mārie, ko te "Me nui ake, me iti ake rānei, me noho ki reira?" rānei, he mea piri, he hoatu hoki i ngā mōhiohio whaihua. Tirohia hoki te reo tinana me ngā kupu. Ko te noho mārie ohorere, te ngāueue, te manawa pāpaku, te pōraruraru, te pōrewarewa, te huri tae o te kiri rānei, he take katoa hei whakatū, hei aromatawai.
He kawenga motuhake tō te tangata e mahi ana i te tūranga kaha, rangatira rānei kia noho mātakitaki. Ehara te whakahaere i tētahi whakaaturanga i te whakaaetanga kia warewarehia ngā paenga. Ko te tikanga me noho mārie, mātakitaki, me te rite ki te whakamutu. He kawenga hoki tō te tangata e whiwhi ana i te rongo, e hoatu ana rānei i te mana whakahaere, kia kōrero wawe i mua i te kōkiri i roto i te mamae ki te whakamāmā i tētahi atu.
He wāhi anō mō te whakawhitinga mana i whiriwhiria, engari kaua rawa he pēhanga, he whakatuma, he hara rānei. Ko te "Ka mahi koe i tēnei mēnā i whakawhirinaki mai koe ki ahau" ehara i te whakaae. Kāore hoki te noho puku. Ko te momo mana tino ataahua ko te momo e tukuna noatia ana, e taea hoki te tango noa.
Me waiho te tiaki muri hei wāhanga o te mahere
Ko te tiaki muri ko te wā e noho ana ki te hono anō i muri i te takaro. Ka māmā noa pea pērā i te awhi, te wai, te paramanawa, te paraikete, te ua, te kōrero mārie, he wāhi iti rānei. He aha te mea e pai ai te tangata kia noho mārire, kāore pea e pai ki tētahi atu, nō reira, pātai i mua i te whakaaturanga he aha te mea e hiahia ana ia i muri mai.
Tirohia mō ngā tohu, te mamae, te nekehanga herea, te kōraruraru ā-ngākau rānei i muri i te wā i heke katoa mai ai ngā tāngata. Ka tūmanakohia he tohu mārama i ētahi momo takaro, engari ko te mamae nui, te pōrewarewa tūmau, te hūpō, te uaua ki te manawa, te kiri pakaru rānei me tere tonu te rongoā. Mēnā he nui ake te āwangawanga i te tiaki tuatahi, rapua he tiaki tohunga, kaua e ngana ki te whakatau i a koe anō.
He mea nui hoki tētahi karere whai muri i te rā i muri mai. Ka hoatu he wāhi ki ngā tangata e rua ki te kōrero he aha te mea i pai, he aha ngā mea ka huri, me te mea rānei me whakahōu tētahi paenga. Mā taua urupare e māmā ake ai, e whaiaro ai, e pārekareka ai hoki te takaro a muri ake nei.
Kia mau tonu ki te ako, me te kore e tere rawa
He take pai te pākiki ki te tūhura i ngā taputapu BDSM, engari ka puta te māia i te haere i tō tere. Pānuihia ngā tohutohu o te hua, whakangunguhia ngā here ngāwari, ngā tukunga poroporo rānei i mua i tētahi whakaaturanga, me te pupuri i ō ngana tuatahi kia iti te pēhanga. Mēnā kāore i te pai tētahi whakaaro, kāore koe e tika ki te akiaki i a koe anō ki te pārekareka ki a ia nō te mea he rongonui noa iho.
E whakapono ana a Discreet Intimate Essentials me noho te koa hei mea tūmataiti, e ngāwari ana te whakatata atu, e pai ana hoki ki a koe. Kōwhiria te mea e tino hiahia ana koe, kōrero mārama, ka tuku i te whakawhirinaki ki te whakatakoto i te tere. Ko ngā wheako kīnaki pai rawa atu kāore i te whakatauria e te kaha o te āhua – ka whakatauria e te haumaru, te kitea, me te wātea ki te kōwhiri o te katoa.
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