Ki te mea kua titiro koe ki tētahi o ēnei ka whakaaro, "me pēhea rawa tēnei e noho ai ki tōna wāhi," māu tēnei aratohu mō ngā whitiki-kore. He tino pūmau, he whakaihiihi hoki ngā hoahoa whitiki-kore, engari ko tētahi o aua hua e whai wāhi nui ana ngā tūmanako. Ki te tika te noho me te hāngai te āhua ki tō tinana, ka rongo koe he mea māori, he hono hoki. Ki te hē te noho, ka raru, ka whakapōrearea rānei, ka kore noa iho e whai hua.
Ehara i te mea mō ngā kaiwhakamahi mātanga anake. Ko te tikanga ka whai hua te mōhiotanga i mua i te hoko. Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi mea e kore e rite ki te taputapu, engari he rite ki te tākaro ngātahi, he kōwhiringa pai te whitiki-kore, engari he pai ki te mārama ki te mahi, ko wai rātou e hāngai ana, me te aha e māmā ake ai tētahi hoahoa i tētahi atu.
He aha te tino whitiki-kore
Ko te whitiki-kore he taonga pito-rua i hoahoatia kia mau tētahi pito ki roto i te kaituku, ko tētahi pito hei kuhu. Engari ki te whakawhirinaki ki tētahi whitiki motuhake huri noa i ngā hope, ka mau te umanga o roto, te pito kuhu rānei e ngā uaua papa-whakahekeheke o te kaimau me te tūnga tinana.
Koira te āheinga. He iti ake ngā taputapu, he nui ake te piri o te kiri, ā, he kaha ake te rongo o te piri i waenganui i ngā hoa. He maha ngā tāngata e hiahia ana ki te whakaaro o tētahi wheako waiwai ake, iti ake te rahi i te whakaritenga whitiki tuku iho.
Ko te hopu ko te tikanga ehara te whitiki-kore i te mea māmā noa. Ka nui ake te tono a ēnei taonga mai i te noho, te whakawhiti uaua, me te tūnga. Ka tere noa te hopu a ētahi tāngata. Ko ētahi e pai ake ana ki te whakamahi me te whitiki mō te kaha ake o te pūmautanga, he mea noa tērā, ā, he kōwhiringa mārama ake i te whakataunga.
He Aratohu mō ngā whitiki-kore: ko wai e hāngai ana
Kaupapahere whakahoki
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Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
Te kaipuke
Ka whakapau kaha mātou ki te tuku wawe i tō ota. Kia tukuna rā anō tō ota, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi īmēra me ētahi atu mōhiohio. He rerekē ngā wā tuku i runga anō i tō wāhi noho.
Hangahanga
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