He mea whakaihiihi pea te hoko i tō huinga kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi tuatahi, ā, ka tae ki te wā me whiriwhiri koe i tētahi. Katahi ka maha rawa ngā ripa e tūwhera ana, te pōhēhētanga o te rahi, me tērā pātai iti kei muri i tō hinengaro - ka pēhea mena ka tono au i te mea hē? Mena kei te pirangi koe ki te hoko kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi ki runga ipurangi, ko te rongo pai he mea nui te mōhio iti ki ngā hua, ā, he maha ngā wā ka nui ake te wā me te māia ki te hokohoko takitahi i te tirotiro i te tangata ake.
He aha i hokona ai ngā kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi ki runga ipurangi?
Mō te nuinga o te tangata, ko te tūmataitinga te take nui rawa. Ka whai wāhi koe ki te whakataurite i ngā āhua, ngā rahi, ngā rauemi me ngā āhuatanga me te kore e tere, e whai whakaaro rānei. He mea nui tēnā ki te whakangungu tōngāmimi, nā te mea kei runga i ngā kōrero taipitopito te hāneanea. He hua e pai ana ki te titiro tere engari kāore pea e tika mō te hunga tīmata, ā, he maha ngā wā ka pai ake te wheako tuatahi mā te tirotiro whakaaro nui ake.
Ka whai wāhi hoki te hokohoko ipurangi ki te whānuitanga o ngā hua. Kāore ngā kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi katoa i te ōrite. Ko ētahi ka hokona hei kete whanaketanga me ētahi rahi, ko ētahi he mono kotahi kua hoahoatia mō tētahi wāhanga motuhake. Mā te rārangi whānui ka māmā ake te whiriwhiri i runga i tō taumata wheako, kaua e noho ki te mea kei runga i tētahi whata.
Katahi anō te taha mahi. Mā te tuku tūmataiti, te utu haumaru me ngā kōwhiringa utu ngāwari ka tangohia te maha o ngā waku mai i te tukanga. Mena he mea nui te tūmataitinga ki a koe, kāore aua tohu whakawhirinaki i te mea anō - he wāhanga ēnei o te wheako hua.
He aha te tino mahi a ngā kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi
Kua hoahoatia ngā kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi hei āwhina i tō tinana kia taunga haere ki te kīkī haere o te wā. Ko te tikanga ka tīmata mā te rahi iti, ā, ka piki ake anake ina hāneanea te rahi o nāianei. Ko te whāinga ehara i te tere. Ko te whāinga ko te hanga i te māharatanga, te whakangā, me te māia.
Ko tērā huarahi āta haere te take he pai ake te hoko kaiwhakangungu i te whiriwhiri i tētahi taonga nui rawa i mua i te wā. Kāore i te pai ake te nui ake i konei. Mā te rahi e hiahia nui ana ka puta he wheako uaua me te kore e hāneanea, ka aukati i tō whāinga.
Mena he tino hou koe, he māmā ake pea te tīmata mā te huinga whakangungu nā te mea ka tangohia ētahi o ngā pōhēhētanga. Kāore koe e ngana ki te matapae i tō hiahia anamata mai i tētahi whakaahua hua. Ka hoatu noa koe i te wāhi ki a koe kia ahu whakamua.
Hokona ngā kaiwhakangungu tōngāmimi ki runga ipurangi me te rahi tika i roto i te hinengaro
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Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
Te kaipuke
Ka whakapau kaha mātou ki te tuku wawe i tō ota. Kia tukuna rā anō tō ota, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi īmēra me ētahi atu mōhiohio. He rerekē ngā wā tuku i runga anō i tō wāhi noho.
Hangahanga
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