He tohu ngāwari noa pea te here i ia rā, he taputapu māia ki te whare moenga, he wāhanga rānei o te whakawhiti mana kua oti te whakarite. Koinei te take e pā ana te pātai me pēhea te kōwhiri here BDSM ki te kimi hoahoa tino whakamīharo, engari ko te kōwhiri i tētahi mea e hāngai ana ki ngā tāngata, te kaupapa, me te taumata o te tākaro e whai wāhi ana. Me hihiri, kia pai, kia whai take hoki te here tika mai i te mau tuatahi.
Mō ētahi tāngata, ko te here he tohu o te whakawhirinaki, te piripono, te hihiko rānei kua kōwhiria. Mō ētahi atu, he taputapu ngahau noa iho hei tāpiri i te pakihiko iti ki tētahi kākahu, whakaaturanga rānei. E tika ana ngā huarahi e rua. Me tīmata ki te kōrerorero pono e pā ana ki te tikanga o te here ki a koe me tō hoa, kātahi ka kōwhiri i te kāhua me ngā āhuatanga e tautoko ana i taua whakaaro.
Me pēhea te kōwhiri i te here BDSM mō tō momo tākaro
I mua i te tirohanga ki ngā rawa, ki ngā taputapu rānei, whakatauhia ki hea, me pēhea hoki te mau i te here. He rerekē ngā hiahia o tētahi here i hoahoatia mō te whakaaturanga tere, whakangahau, i tētahi i whakaaroa mō te mau i ngā wā katoa. Kāore he kōwhiringa "tino pai" kotahi, ko tērā anake e hāngai ana ki ō hiahia me ō rohe.
He māmā ake te here ahua, here rā rānei, he tūpuhi ake, he māmā ake, he pai hoki mō te mau roa. Ka rite pea ēnei ki te here kakī, he here hiako tūpuhi, he taonga ahua-karaehe noa iho. E tika ana mō ngā tāngata e hiahia ana ki te whakamahara tūmataiti o te hononga, me te kore e kukume i te aro ki ngā wāhi o ia rā.
He whānui ake, he kaha ake, he kitea ake te aro ki te pakihiko o te here tākaro. Ka taea te whai i te mowhiti-D o mua mō te piri i te here, i ngā poroporo, i ētahi atu here hototahi. He kōwhiringa mahi tēnei kāhua mō te tākaro i te whare moenga, engari me atawhai tonu. He whai hua te mowhiti-D mō te arataki whakahaere me te here māmā, ehara i te mea hei whakakapi i ngā taputapu motuhake, i te tikanga haumaru rānei.
Ko ētahi takirua ka kōwhiri hoki i te here ā- kawa. Ka rahuitia pea tēnei mō ngā kawa motuhake, ngā huritau, ngā wā rānei kua whakaaetia i roto i ō rāua hihiko. I tēnei take, he mea nui ake pea te tikanga kare-ā-roto i te mea e tika ana mō te mau roa, mō te tākaro kaha rānei.
Ko te ūpoko i mua i te ahua
He here ataahua e pēhi ana, e mirimiri ana, e kore rānei e pai te horomi, e kore e noho roa ki roto i te pouaka taonga. Inehia te kakī ki te rīpene inea ngāwari ki te wāhi e noho ai te here, kātahi ka whakatairite i taua inenga ki te kōrero rahi o te hua. Ki te kore he rīpene inea, whakamahia he aho, ka inea ki te rura.
Mō te nuinga o ngā here, me taea e koe te kuhu i tētahi, e rua rānei ngā maihao i waenga i te here me te kakī. Ka nui tēnei wāhi mō te whakamarie, me te mau tonu i te wāhanga. He ahua whakamīharo te ahua-here kakī kiki ake, engari kaua rawa e aukati i te manawa, i te tohanga, i te nekehanga rānei.
He mea whai hua te whakatikatika, inarā ki te hoko koe i te here tuatahi, ki te hoatu rānei hei taonga. Mā ngā here pēke me ngā kohao maha ka taea e koe te whakatika i te ūpoko, engari he iti ake te ngawari o ētahi here kōrere. Ki te mauhia te here i te wā o te tākaro kaha, tirohia kei te noho tonu me te kore e miro, e pēhi rānei i te korokoro.
Kaupapahere whakahoki
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Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
Te kaipuke
Ka whakapau kaha mātou ki te tuku wawe i tō ota. Kia tukuna rā anō tō ota, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi īmēra me ētahi atu mōhiohio. He rerekē ngā wā tuku i runga anō i tō wāhi noho.
Hangahanga
Ka hangaia ā-rohe ā-ao hoki ā tātou hua. Ka āta kōwhiria e mātou ō mātou hoa whakangao, kia kore ai e kore he kounga teitei ā mātou hua, he utu tika anō hoki.