Ko te rerekētanga i waenga i ngā rawhi u e whakaihiihi ana, me ngā mea ka mutu ki muri o te kaihoki, he take anō ki te pū, te pēhanga, me te wā. Ki te āhua koe e whakaaro ana me pēhea te kōwhiri rawhi u, ko te wāhi pai rawa atu hei tīmatanga ehara i te hoahoa tino māia – engari ko tō manawa mamae, tō taumata wheako, me te momo ngū ka tino hiahia koe.
Kei te hiahia ētahi tangata i tētahi whakauaua māmā, whakawairangi e āta hīanga ana. Ko ētahi atu e hiahia ana i tētahi pīwai kaha ake, tino kaha e mau tonu ana te kitea i roto i tētahi tirohanga katoa. Kāo, kāore tētahi e tika ake. Ko te takirua tika ko tērā e ōrite ana ki tō tinana, tō wairua, me tō taumata māia, inarā ki te hoko ā-ipurangi koe me te hiahia kia tika te mahi i te wā tuatahi.
Me pēhea te kōwhiri rawhi u mō tō taumata wheako
Ki te hou koe ki te tākaro u, ko ngā rawhi ka taea te whakatika te mea haumaru rawa atu. Ka taea e koe te whakahaere i te pēhanga, kaua ki te piri tonu ki tētahi pīwai mau tonu mai i te tīmatanga. He mea nui tēnā nā te mea ka rerekē te ngū o te u mai i tētahi tangata ki tētahi, ā, ka taea hoki te rerekē i runga i te whakaihiihi, ngā huringa hōrmone, te mahana, me te roa o tō tākaro.
Mō ngā tīmata, ka mārama ake te ahua ngawari ki te torotoro i te mea whakaihiihi ake, me te kore e tino mataku. Ka taea e koe te tīmata mā te tūkino tino māmā, ka mau mō te wā poto, katahi ka whakamau paku atu ki te pai tērā. Ka taea tonu e ngā rawhi pēhanga-mau te mahi mō ngā wā tuatahi, engari he iti ake te wāhi mō te whakamātautau. Ki te tino kaha rawa, ka mōhio tonu koe.
Ki te mōhio kē koe e pai ana koe ki te ngū koi ake, ka hiahia pea koe ki tētahi rawhi kaha ake me te mau pūmau ake. Ko te hunga mātanga ake ka rapu i te taurite – tētahi mea e pīwai taurite ana, ā, e kore e paheke i muri i te whakanoho. Ka tino ātaahua tērā i roto i ngā wā roa, i te wā rānei e whakakotahi ana i ngā rawhi me ētahi atu momo tākaro ngū.
He mea nui ake te pēhanga i te āhua
He māmā te hoko mā te āhua. Ka ātaahua pea ngā tāpiritanga whakapaipai, ngā mekameka, me te konganuku whakakini. Engari ki ngā rawhi u, ko te pēhanga te mea e whakatau ana mēnā ka whakamahia anō tētahi hua.
He māmā te pātai matua: kei te hiahia koe ki te pēhanga ka taea te whakatika, ki te taumata tūkino kua whakaritea rānei? He whānui ake te whānuitanga o ngā ahua ka taea te whakatika, ā, he māmā ake te whaiaro. He pai ki ngā tokorua e ako tonu ana i ngā manako o rāua, ā, he kōwhiringa pai ki te rerekē tō ngū mai i tētahi wā ki tētahi.
Ka pai ngā rawhi pēhanga-mau ki te mōhio kē koe ki te taumata pīwai e tika ana mō koe. He maha ngā wā ka kōwhiria mō te watea me te ngū tere ake. Ko te mea anō he iti ake te ngāwari. Ki te tino ngawari, ka rerekē pea te ngū. Ki te tino kaha, ka mutu pea tō wā tākaro i mua i te tīmatanga tūturu.
Ko te ture pai ko te kōwhiri i te mea paku ngawari ake i tō whakaaro, inarā mō te hoko tuatahi. Ka taea tonu e koe te whakapiki i te kaha mā te roa, te wāhi, me te whakaoho anō. He tino uaua ake te pai ki tētahi rawhi e tīmata ana mā te tino kaha.
Ka rerekē ngā momo rawhi i ngā momo ngū
Kāore ngā rawhi u katoa e ngū ana i te āhua kotahi, ahakoa he rite te pēhanga. Ka rerekē te āhua i te tohatoha o te kaha, ā, ka rerekē hoki te ngū.
Ko ngā rawhi momo-kūī he wāhi tīmatanga rongonui nō te mea ka taea te whakatika, ā, he māmā noa te whakamahi. Ka taea e rātou te tuku i tētahi pīwai arotahi me te kore e tino nui. Ko ngā rawhi momo-ngārara ka kaha ake te pīwai, ā, ka tino kaha ake te ngū, inarā ki te whai niho, ki te wāhi whakapā paku ake rānei. Ko ngā rawhi kākāriki ka kōwhiria e te hunga e hiahia ana ki te ngū kaha ake, nō te mea ka taea te whakapiki i te pēhanga ina tāpirihia he tūkino.
Kāore tērā e kī ana he pai ake tētahi ahua. Ko te tikanga he rerekē te ahua mō ia momo tākaro. Ki te hiahia koe ki te torotoro ngawari me te whakahaere māmā, ko ngā ahua ngawari ka taea te whakatika te mea tika ake. Ki te hiahia koe ki te urupare kaha ake, ā, e mōhio pai ana koe ki ō rohe, ka taea pea te whakaaro ki ngā kōwhiringa mātanga ake.
Ka pā te rauemi ki te whakamarie, te taumaha, me te ngū
I te wā e whakaaro ana mō te kōwhiri rawhi u, he maha ngā wā ka warewarehia te rauemi. Kaua e pērā. Ka pā te rauemi ki te whakamarie ki te kiri, te taumaha katoa o ngā rawhi, me te māmā o te horoi.
Ko ngā rawhi konganuku ka ngū māori, taumaha, ā, he paku kaha ake. He pai ki ētahi tērā āhua o te pēhanga me te noho. Ko ētahi atu ka kite i te konganuku he iti ake te murua, inarā ki te kei te rapu tonu rātou he aha te taumata ngū e pai ana ki a rātou. Ka taea e ngā wāhi whakapā he silicon-hiku, he rapa-whakakini rānei te ngawari ake o te wheako me te whakaiti i te pīwai mai i ngā mata pakeke. Ka tino rerekē tērā mō ngā tīmata, mō te tangata rānei he kiri ngawari ake.
He mea nui hoki te taumaha. Ka taea e ngā rawhi taumaha ake te tāpiri i tētahi ngū kume e tino pai ana ki ētahi tangata, engari ka taea hoki e te taumaha anō te kore e pai ake i te tere. He māmā ake te mau i ngā hoahoa māmā mō te wā roa, ā, he iti ake te wehi ki te kei te hanga tonu koe i tō māia.
He tangata takitahi te rahi me te pū, ehara i te ao whānui
Kāore ngā tinana i te ōrite, ā, ka pā te rahi o te u ki te ahua rawhi e ngū pūmau ana, e whakamarie ana. Ka pai rawa pea tētahi rawhi mō tētahi tangata, engari ka paheke ki tētahi atu, ka tino kaha rawa rānei ki tētahi wāhi.
Ki te iti ake, ki te papatahi ake rānei ō u, ka pai pea koe ki ngā rawhi he pīwai pū tino tika ake, ki te tūkino ka taea te whakatika e taea te whakatika āta. Ki te tino kitea ake, ka pai ake pea tētahi kōwā whānui ake, ki te ahua rānei he paku whānui ake ngā wāhi whakapā. Ko tēnei tētahi o ngā wāhi ka paku pohehe pea ngā whakaahua hua. Ka tino kaha pea te pīwai o tētahi mea e ahua ngawari ana, i te wā e tohatoha pai ana te pēhanga o tētahi hoahoa nui ake.
Koia tērā he mea nui te pānui i ngā āhuatanga me ngā taipitopito hoahoa. He pai ake te hua ka riro i tētahi kaihoko whai mana i tētahi e hoko ana i runga i te āhua noa.
Whakaarohia me pēhea tō hiahia ki te whakamahi
He rerekē te hiahia o te whakawairangi poto i mua i te moepuku mai i tētahi tirohanga BDSM roa ake. Ko ngā rawhi u pai rawa atu mō koe ka whakawhirinaki ki te tūnga ka whakatangihia e rātou.
Ki te hiahia koe ki te whawhaki māmā, ko ngā momo māmā-ki-te-whakamau, māmā-ki-te-tango te mea pai rawa atu. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakararuraru i te wairua mā te pōkaikaha ki tētahi mihini uaua. Ki te pai koe ki te mau roa i te wā o te tirohanga, ka nui ake te whakamarie me te pēhanga pūmau. Ki te pai koe ki te tirohanga pērā i te ngū, ka tāpiri pea ngā rawhi whakapaipai me ngā mekameka, ngā whakapaipai rānei ki te wheako, engari kia mahara kei te tika tonu ki tō taumata whakamarie.
Mō te tākaro takirua, he mea nui te kōrero pērā i te kōwhiringa hua. Ki te kei te mau tētahi hoa i ngā rawhi, ka taea e te whakatika āta o te pēhanga te whai hua ake i te wheako katoa me te mahi ngātahi. Mō te tākaro takitahi, he mea nui te māmā o te whakahaere. Ka tino pōkaikaha ake te rawhi he uaua ki te whakanoho ki tētahi ringa i te whakaihiihi.
Me haere tahi te haumaru me te ngū
Me ngū te tākaro u pai, kaua e whiu, engari ki te tino whiriwhiria, e hiahia ana rānei. Ahakoa tēnā, ko te whakahaere te mea nui.
Me āta tīmata, me whakawhāiti i tō wā mau tuatahi. He torutoru meneti ka nui pea i te wā e whakamātautau ana koe i tētahi takirua hou. Ko te ngū, te weriweri koi kāore e noho, te kiri pakaru, te tino rerekē o te tae he tohu kia tangohia tonu. He paku ngū i muri i te tangohanga he mea noa, ā, he maha ngā tangata e pai ana ki te tere o te ngū i te wā e hoki mai ana te rere toto, engari he raina kei waenganui i te kaha me te tino nui.
Ka pai hoki te whakamahana i te tuatahi. Ko ngā ringa, ngā kihi, te hinu ki te tika, ki ētahi atu ngū whakawairangi rānei ka tino pai ake te ngū o ngā rawhi i te whakatakoto ki te kiri kāore i whakaihiihi katoa. He mea nui hoki te tiaki i muri. Ka taea e te pa māmā, te tirotiro, me te whakatā ki te mōhio he pēhea te ngū o tō tinana te huri i tētahi wheako pai ki tētahi tino pai ake.
He mea nui te utu, engari ehara i te mea he pai ake te mea iti
Ka tino pai pea te utu. Ka tino uaua pea te mea i hangaia kia kino. Ko te rerekētanga kei te nuinga o ngā wā kei te whakatikatika, te mutunga, me te whakamarie.
Ki te whai rawhi i ngā mata taratara, te mana tūkino ngoikore, ki ngā pito rānei e ngū kore taurite ana, ka kore noa iho te utu iti e ahua pai ana. I tētahi atu taha, kāore koe e hiahia ki te takirua tino pīroiroi i te mākete kia pai ai te tākaro u. Ko te hoahoa pai, ka taea te whakatika, he pai ki ngā tīmata, ka tino whai hua nā te mea ka taea e koe te whakamātautau me te kore e tino whakapau.
Mō te maha o ngā kaihoko, inarā ki te mea nui te tūmataitinga me te watea, ko te hoko mai i tētahi kaihoko e whakaraupapa mārama ana i ngā hua me te tuku ratonga huna ka māmā ake te mahi. Ka kore noa iho ētahi o ngā mahi whakaaroaro ki te kōwhiri i tētahi mea whanaungatanga.
Me pēhea te kōwhiri rawhi u me te kore e tino whakaaro
Ki te kei te pōhēhē koe i waenga i ngā kōwhiringa, whakawhāitihia ki ngā mea e toru: he aha te kaha o te ngū e hiahia ana koe, mehemea kei te hiahia koe ki te pēhanga ka taea te whakatika, mehemea kei te ahua whakamarie te hoahoa mō tō tinana. He nui ake ngā take i ngā āhuatanga hou.
Mō te nuinga o ngā kaihoko tuatahi, ko te rawhi ka taea te whakatika me ngā pito ngawari ake te wāhi māmā rawa atu hei tīmatanga. Mō te hunga mātanga ake, ko ngā momo pēhanga-mau kaha ake, ki ngā momo-urupare tūkino rānei te mea tika ake. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakamarie me te ngāwari, kōwhiria tētahi hoahoa e taea ai te rerekē āta, kaua ki te kaha katoa, ki te kore rānei.
He tangata takitahi ngā hua whakangahau, ā, ko ngā rawhi u he tauira tino pai mō tēnā. Ehara te takirua tika i te mea e ahua tino mohoao ana i te mata. Engari ko tērā ka whai i a koe ki te pākiki, te whakamarie, me te hiahia ki te whakamātau anō i te wā i muri mai.
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