He uaua ake te hoko i tō ‘stroker’ tuatahi i te hoko i tō ‘vibrator’ tuatahi. He nui ake ngā āhua i te mea i whakaarohia, he puare noa ngā whakamārama, ā, he maha ngā kaihoko e hiahia ana kia mārama te aratohu whāwhāure tāne me te kore whakatairanga nui. Ki te rite tērā ki a koe, kāore koe e huri noa ana i ō whakaaro – mā te taonga tōtika ka māmā ake te takaro takitahi, ka nui ake te pai, ā, ka hāneanea ake, engāri mā te taonga hē ka warewaretia noa i roto i tētahi kaiutuutu.
Kāore te pai o te whāwhāure i te kōwhiri i te mea tino kaha o te whārangi. E pā ana ki te kimi i te ranunga tōtika o te ngākaunui, te ū, te rauemi me te māmā o te whakamahi mō tō tinana me tō mahinga. Kei te hiahia ētahi tangata ki tētahi ringaringa tere, māmā ka taea te horoi ka penapena. Ko ētahi e hiahia ana ki te kakano kaha ake, te mimiti, te taonga rānei ka taea e rāua te whakamahi tahi me tētahi hoa. Ko te kōwhiringa pai rawa atu he iti ake i te āhua kanapa, ā, he nui ake i te mea e pai ana ki a koe.
Aratohu whāwhāure tāne: he aha ēnei taonga e mahi ai
I te taumata māmā rawa, he taonga te whāwhāure tāne i hangaia hei whakaputa pēhanga whakaongaonga me te kakano huri noa i te ure. Ko te tikanga, he ringaringa ngāwari me te pito tuwhera, he stroker kakano me te uho kaha ake, he taonga matatau rānei e tāpiri ana i te wiriwiri, te mimiti, te nekehanga aunoa rānei. Ko te whāinga o aua mea katoa ko te whakapai ake i te ngākaunui, engāri he rerekē ngā huarahi e mahia ai.
Ko te wāhi māmā rawa ki te tīmata ko te rerekētanga matua i waenga i ngā ringaringa me ngā stroker whai hanganga. He ngāwari ake te ringaringa, he ngāwari ake, ā, he iti ake te whakamataku mō ngā tīmata. He nui ake te āhua māori ki te ringaringa, ā, he māmā ake te whakahaere. He kaha tonu te pupuri o te stroker whai hanganga i tōna āhua, ka taea te whakaputa pēhanga riterite ake, ka māmā ake te pupuri i te taonga, tautautū i te wā e pahekeheke ana.
Ki te hou koe ki tēnei kāwai, he pai ake te māmā. He whakaihiihi pea ngā kakano ā-roto kaha me ngā awa kuiti, engāri ehara i te mea ko te wheako tuatahi tino hāneanea. He pai ake te hoahoa ngawari me te rauemi ngāwari me te wāhi ki te whakamātau ka nui ake te mōhio ki a koe he aha tō tino pai.
Me pēhea te kōwhiri i te piri me te rongo tika
He nui ake te piri i te mea e whakaarohia ana e te maha o ngā kaihoko. Ki te kuiti rawa te whāwhāure, he kore hāneanea pea, kaua e whakaihiihi. Ki te wewete rawa, he kore whakaihiihi pea te rongo. He maha ngā wā e tohu ana ngā whakamārama hua i tēnei mā ngā kupu pēnei i te hāneanea, te kaha, te pai mō te tīmata, te totoro atu rānei. Kāore i te tino pai aua kupu, engāri ka taea e aua mea te āwhina i a koe ki te karo i ngā taupatupatu mārama.
He pai hoki te whakaaro ki te roa. He taonga ētahi i hangaia mō te whiu roa, engāri ko ētahi e aro nui ana ki te mahunga, ki te tūī rānei me ngā hoahoa poto ake, whaiti ake. He pai tonu te rongo o te ringaringa poto ake ki te pai koe ki te whakaongaonga arotahi me te whakahaere māmā ake. He pai ake te taonga roa ki ngā tāngata e pai ana ki te whiu tino kaha me te rongo rumaki ake.
Ko te kakano te wāhi e tino kaha ana te pai o te tangata. Ko ngā ripa ā-roto, ngā purupuru, ngā korou me ngā kauhanga rerekē ka huri i te wheako. Kāore te nui o te kakano i te tikanga he pai ake. Ki te ngāwari koe, he pai ake te rongo o ngā tauira ngāwari, ā, he māmā ake te whakamahi mō ngā wā roa ake. Ki te pai koe ki te wāwāhi kaha ake me te rongo tino kitea, he pai ake pea te taipitopito ā-roto māia ake ki a koe.
Ka huri hoki te rauemi i te wheako. Ko ngā rauemi ngāwari ake, rite kiri ake ka pai ake te rongo ki te tinana, engāri he nui ake te tiaki i te wā e horoi ana, e whakamaroke ana. He māmā ake te whakahaere me te tiaki i ngā rauemi kaha ake, ahakoa he iti ake te ahua o aua mea. He wā katoa he hokohoko i waenga i te tūturu, te pūmau me te ngawari.
Aratohu whāwhāure tāne ki ngā momo taonga matua
Ko ngā stroker ā-ringa te wāhi tīmatanga tino noa nā te mea he ngāwari, he utu, he māmā ki te mārama. Ka tāpiri koe i te whakahinuhinu, ka whakatika i tō pupuri, ka whakahaere i te pēhanga me te tere e koe anō. He painga nui tērā taumata whakahaere, tautautū i te wā e mahi tonu ana koe i te momo rongo e pai ana ki a koe.
He pai ngā ringaringa pito-tuwhera mō ngā tīmata e hiahia ana kia iti ake te paru me te horoi māmā ake. Nā te mea ka taea te uru ki ngā pito e rua, he māmā ake te horoi me te whakamaroke. Ka taea hoki e aua mea te whakahaere nui atu i te mimiti, ka iti ake te kaha o te taonga. Ki te mea he mea nui te tūmataiti me te ngawari, he maha ngā wā ka nui ake te tūturu o tēnei momo whakamahi ia rā.
Ko ngā stroker pito-kati ka nui ake te mimiti me te kaha ake o te pēhanga. Mō ētahi kaiwhakamahi, koina tonu te āhuareka. Mō ētahi atu, he kaha rawa pea te rongo ki te kore rātou e whakamahi i te whakahinuhinu nui, ā, kia ata haere. He tino pai pea aua mea, engāri he iti ake te tuku ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi mea tere me te tiaki iti.
Ka tāpiri ngā whāwhāure wiriwiri i tētahi atu paparanga whakaongaonga, engāri ehara i te mea he piki aunoa. He pai ki ētahi tangata te haruru anō huri noa i te tūī, i te hīnaki rānei, engāri ko ētahi ka kite i te wiriwiri he mea whakararuraru ki te pēhanga whiu anake. Ki te mōhio kē koe he pai ki a koe te wiriwiri mai i te takaro hoa, i ētahi atu taonga rānei, he pai pea te whakamātau. Ki te kore, he hoko pai tonu te ringaringa ā-ringa pai.
Ko ngā taonga aunoa, whiu rānei kei te pito matatau ake. Ka taea e aua mea te tuku takaro-kore-ringa, āhua-kore-ringa rānei, te whakaongaonga kaha ake, me te rongo moni ake, engāri he nui ake aua mea, he nui ake te utu, he nui ake te uaua ki te horoi me te penapena. He tino pai pea aua mea ki te hiahia koe ki tērā wheako, engāri kāore e tika kia tīmata katoa i reira.
Kāore e taea te whakakore i te whakahinuhinu
Mēnā kotahi te wāhanga o tēnei aratohu whāwhāure tāne e penapena ana i te moni me te kore hāneanea ki a koe, koia tēnei: whakamahia te whakahinuhinu i ngā wā katoa. He onge te rongo o te whāwhāure kore whakahinuhinu i te mea i whakaarohia, ā, ko te akiaki i te wāwāhi maroke ka kino pea te rauemi me te whakapataritari i tō kiri.
Ko te whakahinuhinu wai te kōwhiringa tino haumaru katoa nā te mea e mahi ana ki te nuinga o ngā rauemi taonga, ā, he māmā te horoi. Ka hoatu ki a koe te piko māene me te kore he take hototahi ka puta mai i ngā hātepe waipiro. Ki te hiahia koe kia nui ake te māene, ka taea e koe te whakahou tonu. He mea noa tērā, ā, he maha ngā wā ka whakapai ake i te wā takaro, kaua e whakararuraru.
He mea nui hoki te nui. He nui ake te kore e mahia e te nuinga o ngā kaiwhakamahi tuatahi. Tāpirihia ētahi ki roto i te taonga, ētahi ki a koe anō, ā, hoatu ētahi hēkona kia hora i mua i te whakatau mena he tika te piri. Ki te ahua kuiti rawa te taonga i te wā tonu, he maha ngā wā ka whakatika e te whakahinuhinu atu te wāhanga o te raru.
Te horoi, te whakamaroke me te penapena me te kore e uaua
Ko te taonga e pai ana te rongo, engāri he raru ki te horoi, he iti ake te whakamahi. Koina te take me noho te ngawari hei wāhanga o te whakatau hoko, kaua e waiho hei whakaaro muri. He māmā ake te horoi rawa i ngā hoahoa tuwhera, engāri ko ngā kauhanga kati hōhonu me nui ake te manawanui.
Horoia te whāwhāure i muri i ia whakamahinga ki te wai mahana me te horoi taonga, te hopi ngāwari rānei ki te whakaae ngā tohutohu rauemi. Ko te wāhanga tino nui ko te whakamaroke. Ka taea e ngā awa ā-roto ngāwari te mau i te makuku, ā, ko te penapena i te taonga mākū ka puta he haunga, he pirau rauemi, he take akuaku rānei. Ko te whakamaroke rawa i mua i te penapena te tikanga tino haumaru.
He nui ake te penapena i te mea e whakaarohia ana e te tangata. Penapenahia te taonga ki tētahi wāhi mā, maroke, me te huna, he pai ki roto i tōna ake pēke, ipu rānei kia kore ai e kohikohi i te puru, e noho rānei ki ngā rauemi kore hototahi. Mō ngā kaihoko i Ahitereiria me Aotearoa e hiahia ana ki te tūmataiti, he pai ake pea te taonga whaiti me te tiaki māmā i te wā roa i te kōwhiringa moni uaua e kore e puta mai i te kāpata.
Ngā hē noa ka mahia e ngā kaihoko tuatahi
Ko te hē nui rawa ko te hoko mō te wawata, kaua mō te whakamahi. He tino pai pea te ahua o te taonga i te ipurangi, engāri kāore pea i te pai ki ō hiahia, tō ngāwari, tō nui rānei o te mahi e hiahia ana koe ki te hoatu. Ki te hiahia koe ki te takaro takitahi auau, he nui ake te mea nui o te hāneanea me te mahi i te mea hou.
Ko tētahi atu take noa ko te whai i te kōwhiringa tino kuiti, tino kaha rānei. Kāore te nui o te pēhanga i te tikanga he nui ake te ahuareka. Ko te taonga e pai ana mo ngā meneti e rua, engāri ka kore hāneanea tere, ehara i te mea he taonga pai ake. He nui ake te whaihua o te rongo taurite ka taea e koe te pai ki a koe.
Ka iti hoki te whakaaro o te tangata ki te wā horoi. Ki te mōhio koe e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi mea māmā ki te horoi, te whakamaroke, me te huna, whakautehia tērā. Kāore he mea kore whakaihiihi mo te kōwhiri i te ngawari. Inaa, he maha ngā wā ka pai ake te wheako nā te mea he nui ake te tūponotanga ka whakamahi koe i te taonga kia tika, kia riterite hoki.
Me pēhea te mōhio kua kitea e koe te mea tika
Me pai te whāwhāure tika, kaua e rite ki te mahi taumaha. Me ngāwari koe ki te whakatika i te pēhanga, te whakamahi hāneanea ki te whakahinuhinu, me te horoi me te kore e mataku i muri iho. Me uru ki roto i tō mahinga, kaua e waiho hei kaupapa.
Ko te tikanga, he ringaringa taketake pea, kaua ko te tauira tino kanapa. Ko te tikanga, he kakano ngāwari ake i te wā i whakaaro ai koe he kaha. Ko te tikanga hoki, ka whakamātau koe i tētahi momo i te tuatahi, ka ako i ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe, ka whakapai ake ā muri ake. Kāore he kōwhiringa tino pai kotahi mō te katoa, he pai ake te taurite mō tō tinana me ō hiahia.
Ki te hoko huna koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi wāhi pono hei tīmatanga, arohia tō aro ki te piri, te rauemi, te kakano me te horoi. He tūmataiti te ahuareka, ā, ko te hoko tino whai whakaaro ko te mea e māmā ake ai te rongo o te takaro takitahi, e pai ake ai, ā, e māmā ake ai te pai ki muri ake.
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