I te wā e pai ana te taikaha engari kāore i te pai te āheinga, ka taea te huri i te wheako katoa. He aratohu arotake whakahinuhinu pai mō te tinana ko te karo i te whakapae noa – nā te mea, mā te whakahinuhinu tika, ka māmā ake te taera, te takaro takitahi me te whakamahi taonga taikaha, ā, ka hāneanea ake, ka tino māmā ake hoki.
Ko te whakahinuhinu tētahi o ngā mea whakahirahira e hokona wawe ana e te tangata, kātahi anake ka mōhio ā muri ake, he mea nui te kakano, ngā kai, me te hototahi. Ko ētahi o ngā rōrahi ka māmā, ka ngāwari te tū. Ko ētahi ka roa ake engari he uaua ake ki te taonga taikaha, ki te kōpae rānei. Ā, ko ētahi he tino pai mō tētahi momo takaro engari he kore e pai mō tētahi atu. Mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi wheako pai ake, he mea nui kia mōhio koe ki te mea e hokona ana e koe.
Me pēhea te whakamahi i tēnei aratohu arotake whakahinuhinu ā-tinana
Ko te huarahi māmā ki te arotake i tētahi whakahinuhinu ā-tinana ko te whakaaro ki tua atu o te tapanga. He ataahua te oro o te "roa-roa", engari he pēhea tōna āhua i muri i te tekau meneti? He ngāwari pea te oro o te "taiao", engari ka piri, ka maroke wawe rānei? Ko te arotake whaihua ka titiro ki ngā mea e whā i te wā kotahi: te āhua, te roanga o te noho, te hototahi me te horoi.
Ko te āhua te mea tuatahi ka kitea e te nuinga o te tangata. Ko ētahi whakahinuhinu he mātotoru, he kirikiri, engari ko ētahi he kikokore, he māmā. Kāore he pai ake o tētahi i tētahi. Mēnā he pai ki a koe te pōuri māmā ake mō te taera ia rā, mō te pa atu ki waho rānei, he pai ake pea te whakahinuhinu wai-tūhapa māmā ake. Mēnā kei te hiahia koe kia iti ake te tono anō i ngā wā roa, he pai ake pea te whakahinuhinu hūropi matotoru, te rōrahi ranu rānei.
He mea nui te roanga o te noho nā te mea ka taea e te whakatūnga te patu i te piki haere. Ko te whakahinuhinu e hiahia ana kia tukuna tonu he pai tonu mō te takaro tere, ngā rōrahi pai mō te waha, mō te hunga e hiahia ana kia ngāwari te horoi. Engari mēnā kei te whakamahere koe i tētahi wā roa, takaro i te kaukau, te whakamahi taonga taikaha roa rānei, ka nui ake te hiranga o te roanga.
Kaupapahere whakahoki
I Discreet Intimate Essentials, ka ū mātou ki te whakarato hua kounga me te ratonga kaihoko pai. Nā te pūanga piripono, whaiaro hoki o te nuinga o ngā hua e hokona ana e mātou, kei roto i tēnei Kaupapahere Whakahoki me ngā Whakahokinga Utu ngā tikanga whakahirahira e pā ana ki te akuaku, te whakamahi hua, ngā taonga pakaru, hē rānei, te panoni whakaaro, me ngā ota kore e taea te tuku.
Kāore he mea i roto i tēnei kaupapahere i whai take kia whakahāwea, kia herea, kia whakarerekē rānei i ētahi tika kei a koe i raro i ngā ture kaihoko e hāngai ana ki tōu whenua, tae atu ki te Ture Kaihoko o Ahitereiria, ki te tika.
Te kaipuke
Ka whakapau kaha mātou ki te tuku wawe i tō ota. Kia tukuna rā anō tō ota, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi īmēra me ētahi atu mōhiohio. He rerekē ngā wā tuku i runga anō i tō wāhi noho.
Hangahanga
Ka hangaia ā-rohe ā-ao hoki ā tātou hua. Ka āta kōwhiria e mātou ō mātou hoa whakangao, kia kore ai e kore he kounga teitei ā mātou hua, he utu tika anō hoki.